Someone once asked...

“So yeah, basically I am dating a guy whom I have liked for about 2 years, and now we're dating! But after coming into the relationship, I got to know that he is not the guy I fell in love with; those were just superficial traits I fell in love with. Now the thing is, we argue often, and it has been 6 months since we started dating... But you know what, I love him now soo much too, but he isn't the same guy, he argues often!! It's not like he is losing interest. Now I need your suggestion about ts”

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Someone answered with kindness...

I don't think u should be with him, i feel like u should sit down with urself and really think is this the person and is this habit of arguing smth u wanna continue in ur future or should u leave, cause the longer u stay the harder it will become, genuinely think you should breakup and next time try to get to know the person beyond surface lvl superficial things before committing

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Another soul answered...

You should communicate this directly if you can. If you think being with him would do more harm than good then no matter how much it hurts please break it off. Experienced something similar and I am so glad I let that person go. Also maybe see what the fights are about and who is on the losing end always

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