“so whenever me and my bf go out (we have been dating for around 5 and a half months and we have hung out 4-5 times) ....on 1st date we went to watch a movie and ate cheesy fries at boba bhai outlet with some boba and on the same day some more fries with cold drink at mcd (he paid for both) ....then next time we went to some cafe (i paid cuz he said tere papa toh hospital se discharge hue h abhi na chal party de ...nothing serious tho my dad was fine), then again to a full day date (i paid at restaurant cuz the bill was 1500 and he had 500 only), then we went to burger king while returning from clg (i paid again cuz he had no cash and paytm wasn't working cuz of poor network)......he asked to go out everytime .....i spent more than 2k in a single month like that which i was saving to get some cloths .....i think he's only the one gaining everything here and im a fool who's gaining nothing but loosing my savings .... i don't even have money but somehow i always end up paying ....and for restaurant and burger king he said he will pay me back later but he did not ...and i can't ask him to do so ig ...idk what to do mann ....jab dekho "ur my sugar mommy blah blah bolta rehta h " obviously in a fun way im not any of that ....but still man we are just clg students ...i don't always have that kinda money to spend mindlessly and i feel uncomfortable saying no as well ...mujhe sharam aajati h isko nhi aati ...and im not saying i want him to pay all the time ofc not ..but yar he goes out with his friends to eat out a lot and he got money uss time ...he's ordering stuff (pretty useless stuff) all the time ...tab bhi uske pass hote hain paise but not when he's with me and when he's the one inviting me on a date ... that's just unsettling to me ...and then he has the audacity to call me sugar mommy and not pay me back even when he clearly said yu abhi pay krde i'll pay u back baad mein ........what should i do mann ... i can't keep spending like that and i want only the money which he said he'll pay me back baki ka toh chalo thik h”
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Wait for few more daysa nd few more dates, if he is still doing the same, run away, he is using you