“So this is a long story, have some patience ok? My frst year of uni, I had a crush on a boy. I started noticing him, watching him, his stories, ig notes everything. Then one day I started liking his notes. He started liking back mine. Out of the blue he texted me ' u have nice music taste ' then deleted it. But I saw it so I texted him thanku. Thats how we started talking. Days passed by. Since we were both introverts we didn't talk at college. But we chatted daily. If not atleast sent reels everyday. A few months gone. One day he started to sit with me during classes. We started talking. It was great. It's like this genuine bond I was longing for so long. I loved talking to him. Then he started asking me for favours like calling his attendance when he is absent. So that day onwards I started calling his attendance whenever he didn't attended the classes. I drew an entire portfolio for him. Fastforward to a few mnths back. His msgs stopped. His replies feels dry and not interested. Then I stopped texting. And guess what it's been 2 months and he didn't even ask me why I stopped texting. It's like I meant nthg to him and he was just using me to get things he wanted. Sometimes I felt like he liked me. I'll tell u some details why. He always recommended me new songs and movies. Like it was our thing. When we went outside together he would check whether I got home safe. Ik it's common among frnds also. Then on exam days he would wait till I finish writing and leaves the Hall with me. But he never really said anything to me that equals to I love you. Maybe I'm delusional. Idk. But the thing is I stopped talking to him and I'm avoiding him in college now. Looks like he doesn't care about me also now. How do I get over him. Get over someone who wasn't even a close frnd. I want to move on and live my life without having to bother about this.”
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Someone answered with kindness...
So basically he just used you for his own needs!! These type of boys lead you on and then act oblivious, ik it must be hard for you, but i would say keep ignoring him, and block him from your entire phone, don't keep his photos, I'd, don't even stalk him, bcz the more u get to know about his life, you'd be more engaged in his life rather than yours. So just cut him off totally, at start it'll be hard, but once u detach, you will question yourself that how do you even liked him! So yeah, just cut him off totally and see the magic, have a nice day and keep smiling 🎀
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Girly, so hiii, we could never talk again, but yeah didn't wanna give you a reality check but feels like he already has someone outside your college and he was just using you for his own benefits. You can try talking about it to your friends or people you feel really close with but yeah relationship without a tag is very hard to move on from, but please find someone better and you're worth of everything you don't even think about and it's pretty hard to forget someone but also he's in the same college. After some time, you won't forget about it but it'll stop hurting you the way it does, it'll get better and you'll find someone who would be with you for you, have a goodnight precious girl💕(I'm also a girl btw)