“so there's this person who i got close to a few months back, i've known them for 2-3years (same uni) but we got close recently. i feel a strange deep connection with them, ever since i knew them, like we literally match the colors (same shade) we wore for a 3-4months straight and we still do, like not everyday but yea a lot of times. apparently that person actually liked me ever since they knew me but i didnt (cuz i was in a bad relationship back then). now after getting out of that relationship, i got close to this person and i feel we have a lot in common, i still completely do not know this person but judging based on what i know, they are great. I thought of getting close and get to know them more but they confessed me and i felt i wasnot ready for relationship & commitment ( since last went bad) so i told them that and we are not talking anymore.. but somewhere i feel i should've tried it but then again im also scared what if we truely arent meant for eo. i somehow end up thinking abt that person 24/7, what do i do”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Trusting someone new and opening up to them feels kinda hard and I get it. U just came out of a bad relationship and u don't want to put yourself in the same spot again. The way you talk about this new person feels like they are good. If you got to know them in these past few days and u are sure this person is a nice person ( even your gut feeling counts) then you should definitely give them a chance. Don't open up all at once but take things slowly. First of all communicate with them and make them understand where u stand and take things slowly. If you don't find that connection it can end without any drama. But if they are great then it's a win. Just bcoz your last relationship sucked doesn't mean it have to repeat. Give the universe a chance. If you don't take the chance right now I think you might regret the choice even after a long time. Still the decision is completely yours to make. Hope you find the courage to take the decision you truly want ❤