So, there's the guy and we have been talking to each other for last 1 year not consistently but sometimes and in the beginning he was about to proposed me for being his girlfriend however I said I am not ready for the relationship and he is still talking with me however from the start I don't feel any romantic feeling towards him however I thought gradually I will develop the feeling towards him and yet i don't think I am feeling any romantic feelings for him what should I do

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

If you don't feel romantic feelings towards him or don't want to be in a relationship with him then you don't have to force yourself. If continuing to talk with him makes you feel guilty or awkward you can cut things out. But if you're cool with being friends with him and make sure he understands you don't have any intention of being in a relationship with him then you can continue if that's what you want initially. But it's hard to stay friends with someone you've feelings for, because obviously he'd have think about those feelings when talking with you unless he has moved on.