“So there is this thing which I literally haven’t discussed with someone till now not even my closest people. It’s a long story actually. So around end of October 2025, I was going for my college like everyday in the metro and suddenly I see a girl standing, pink hair, pink kurti and blue jeans. She was easily standing out in the crowd because of her hair colour. I looked at her, once, twice, thrice, and I was like hmm who is she, then there is one station which comes on my route, where almost half of the people get down, and that station is also the nearest for a college and I have seen most of those baddies and good looking girls getting down at that station(that college is known for having beautiful girls) so I assumed she will also get down there. But, then I saw she hasn’t, and after that station comes the last where everyone gets down and have to change the line for further route, I looked at her and wondered where would she go from here. Also I was standing in the first general coach cause it’s less crowded in the morning and she was in the very next one(that is the female coach). Now the last station came and everyone got down and I saw her going. Then I went to my next platform. And saw her standing on the platform in front of mine, so now I know okay she goes towards a side(but exactly where I don’t know). Okay, this was done, now after like 2-3 days, I again saw her in the metro and I was like oh wait this is her, again I was there in that particular coach and she was there in the female one. Then again I saw her like 2-3 times and one day I realised that there is this particular time she comes on, So I started going on the same time when she comes. until one day when she was on the other side of the platform and I was on my platform, and we locked in eye contacts. We had a long eye contact. She was looking at me, I was looking at her, and literally both of us didn't break the eye contact. Then my metro came and I was a bit intimidated because I am very inexperienced when it comes to this female interaction, dating and all. My metro came and I went away. I was thinking about this whole day, and then now it was around November, like the start of November, and one day I was again on the metro. Now because I knew the time when she comes, so I every day was going on that time. So that I can just see at her. I don’t know I was not even attracted to her but don’t know why something felt very nice, her presence, she felt very relaxed and calm, but again I was very intimated by her looks, like it felt like, I could never talk to a girl like her ever. Now one day I was in the metro, she was in the metro, and suddenly when we came out, she came beside me. Okay, so this could be coincidence also, like we just got down and we are going, so we are side by side. Okay, that's fine. Then again I went to my platform, she went to my platform. The very next day again she came beside me. Then the next day again she came beside me, and like this happened for weeks that she was coming beside me. She used to match my pace, like I was walking, if I was ahead she was behind, she used to come right beside me, and she used to match my pace till the time I used to reach my platform. And we used to lock in eye contacts in the metro from that opposite platforms, like she was standing right in front of me on opposite platform every single day. And now I was also a bit scared because I'm not experienced to approach strangers, but every single day she was looking at me, I was looking at her, and she was coming every single day and matching my pace. But as I said, I'm not experienced, I'm not doing any single thing. And like I used to go every single day, and when like she always stood in the female coach and I was in the general coach, one coach before hers, I used to look in the metro and see if she's there. Earlier I didn't know from which station she comes, but one day I saw her entering, and she used to get on the metro from the very next station from which I used to come. So means she stays nearby, and that is the station which I get down in the evening. So yeah, so now I know, but I don't know for she goes to which college, where she goes, and when she comes back, etc. Now she knows that I am someone, I know that she is someone, and we are coming every single day. But again, no conversation has happened. And when I used to get down to the metro on the last station, and I used to like find here and there that where she is, and suddenly she used to appear beside me. And one day I was behind her, she was quite ahead. I saw her doing the same thing, like she was looking here and there, and literally that was very much obvious. And then suddenly she looked back, she saw me, and suddenly she was sitting in the front. Then one day I was walking, she was right beside me. I just saw a little bit behind my back, and she was looking straight at me. We locked eye contact, and suddenly I started walking. Now, this was very obvious from her side. But see, because I started to understand these things, I loved this phase, but I was going through a lot of things at that time. I was completing my some projects, work and all, some family related stuff. Exams came in, and for a few weeks I was not going to the metro. Then again I returned, again she was there, and again all this started happening. So I couldn't take the step. Also, while seeing all this, see, I'm not a very attractive guy, but I started to put efforts. I was working out, I improved my dressing sense. I'm telling you, I've never dressed this well ever. And winter is my favorite season when it comes to outfits. I literally wore the best outfits I ever wore. And suddenly, I glowed up a little. And the thing was, there was a lot of pollution, so I also used to have a mask on my face. So that thing made me look more attractive, like those cool boys, because I noticed getting attention from a lot of girls at that time, but only one girl was stuck in my mind, so I was ignoring every single girl other than that one. So now November passed away, December passed, and again exams and all came, and eventually now it was next year, means 2026 January. No conversation, nothing has happened. I had my exams, my projects and all. Then there was an off the winter vacation, and after that I returned to the metro, and I couldn't find her for weeks. Like legit, I couldn't find her. I was going on the same time, but again I was getting attention from other girls in metro and college, but I ignored, because only one girl was stuck on my mind. And I was like, if I would have spoken to her, maybe she was in my contact till now. But suddenly one day I was traveling on the metro, and I went to the other platform, and I saw her standing on the opposite one, and she also noticed me, and we had a long eye contact. And then my metro came, and after like one or two days again she was there on the opposite platform. She saw me, I saw her. And then the very next day she returned to the metro, and the very first thing she did while entering the metro was she looked at me. Literally, she checked upon me. Now one more thing, whenever this eye contact and all was happening, whenever she used to look at me, I used to act a bit like tough to approach guys, so that it doesn't look that I'm very desperate. I used to look here and there, and honestly I had gained a lot of confidence at that time that I am getting a bit attention from a girl. So I was like pretty confident, and earlier I used to think that this is a girl I can not even talk to, but now suddenly her body language and everything felt so calm, and I was like, maybe I am mocking her. See, that's wrong. Now the thing is, after all this, now this week ended, and the next week again she came, and literally in the metro she was constantly looking at me. And then the last station came, she came beside me, and literally right from getting down on the metro station, then on the escalator, then walking, and then going ahead, she was beside me. The very next day again. But then of course it was like January was about to end, and now it was February. It had been many months, so she started to stop matching the pace. Although she used to come on the metro, I used to be there, she used to sometimes look at me, I used to look at her, but again the pace matching now stopped. Now I had to go to her, she was not coming, because I understand it had been a lot of time, but this girl is stuck in my mind, and I started to have feelings for her. I'm telling you, and I could sense it that it was mutual at one point. Then again I had some projects and all from my college, and for a few days I didn't go to the metro. I was involved in projects and all, I was doing that, and again I returned after the projects, and I again saw her in the metro. We again locked a huge long eye contact. But in the metro since the beginning, like when all this started, she was always on her phone. She used to have earphones, so I used to feel like, what if she already has a boyfriend or someone, or if she is seeing other guys, because she is a very pretty girl, so attractive girls have a lot of guys in her DMs. So I don't know, or what if she's a playgirl, I don't know, that could only be known if I go and talk to her. Now whenever I used to see her again, because it was a long time, so it was awkward for both of us, so the eye contact thing also stopped a bit, and she used to now be glued to her phone. Whenever we were face to face, she used to be on her phone, so even I used to be, just to show that I am not desperate. And I used to catch her looking at me. Whenever I am not looking at her, then I used to look at her, she used to look away. When I used to look at her, when she is looking at me, I look away. All this was happening, and now after February, March, April, and now it was the time of May. In May, now this was like the final time before my college gets over for that semester, and I have my college break of 2 months. So I wanted to talk to her. I was praying, if I get another opportunity to be around her. And yes, I was getting the opportunity. She was there. Now the thing was, one day she was not matching the pace, and suddenly I also couldn't find her in the metro. I was like, I don't know where she is, because earlier she was always having her hair colored, and this day she was not, so I couldn't recognize her. I was walking, and suddenly I came beside a girl, and I could sense that the girl on my side is actually looking at me, like very obvious. And I saw a little bit, and I saw, oh my god, this is that girl, damn. But again I couldn't smoke up anything. See, I freeze with her. And then again, as I said, in the month of May I was praying I get opportunity to talk. And yeah, she was there, she used to look at me, I used to look at her. But now I was like more scared to approach her, because what would I even say? There is no common topic. I can't say, hey, we come together, I've seen you so many times, we come on the same metro, because it has been a long time, and this is a phrase which I should have said in the very initial days. If now I say, she would be like, oh my god, you are taking so much time to say this. I was just hoping if I get some situation where I have to talk to her, or she has to talk to me, anything like, and something happens. But no, she was beside me, she was coming. She now doesn't match my pace. It's only when I match her pace. I used to be beside her, but again now till the last day of my college I couldn't speak up to her. And now my college sem break started 2 months. I was literally hoping that I meet her when the college opens. I wish I meet her when the college opens. And guess what? Yes, I saw her again on the metro, and not just once, like almost every single day since my college has opened. And but again, she doesn't match the pace. Now she stays behind me, or she literally stays either right beside behind me or very much far, because now it's also awkward for her. And now she is so much in her phone, yaar, that eye contact thing also doesn't happen that much now, because now it's awkward for both of us. Or maybe she thinks that I'm not interested because she has tried so much. It's me only who has not tried. Now it's around November 2026, almost 1 year, but I still hope to talk to her. Now I don't know what to do. I don't know her name, I don't know which college she goes to or what. In fact, one day I was coming late from my college, like in the evening time, and I saw her, and I was like, let's approach, because in the evening the energy is more calm. But again I fail to, I know now, like in the evening when she comes, but that's like very much what should I say, late from my college timings, because my college ends around 3 p.m. and she comes around 6:15, so like 3 hours. I'm hoping to get another opportunity to talk to her. Like in the last few days also, there has been some times when she has been besides me, but that was only coincidental because she doesn't match my pace anymore. I don't know if she has lost the interest because I have not. I still like her. what should I even do now, It has been like 5-6 days that I have not seen her because of festival holidays. Tomorrow again college opens, maybe I'll see her again. But after 2 days I will have diffraction timings due to exams and again for like 5-10 days I wont get to see her. Also this is the final semester of mine where I travel to the metro regularly. And this is going to end this year. From next year jan 2027 I wont have regular college and would not go on that time also maybe, this is my last chance. What should I do? My college would end may 2027 then I wont travel more on that route and also I would go to a new city. I don’t want to live with a regret. Im not a playboy, also this cold approach thing is not something I am very confident with. What can I even do also it has been so much time also. Now also the thing is how can I even create an opportunity for myself to go and talk to her because she doesn’t come to me now, it’s only coincidence when this happens. I really like her, but what should I do. Also I haven’t told about this to literally anyone.”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Damn!! she had put a lot of effort in the beginning you deffenately need to talk to her, when you see her just smile at her and whisper hi if she responds then you talk and get to know each other its not like you're a complete stranger you both known eachother for a year now. so man up and talk to her, after all everything is not a coinsidence.