“So there is a guy but I am confuse about him like we are best buddies for 3 years but in last year he got in a relationship with someone else and it was very hurtful for me cause I was very attached to him and he just suddenly ghost me and everytime come to me only when he is bored after 1 year of their relationship now they both broke up but she is still in contact with him like they are still friends and now this guy wants me to be his girl because now he thinks I am his type and he has told his ex that he is not talking with me because the reason of their breakup is me and his ex don't want him to be close with me as there was a time when I like him but now I don't like him romantically but I also want to be friends with him so is it okay to be friends??”

Another soul answered...

Before answering u i will say I'm in same boat like this year i went the same situation this 5 yr of frndship where he used to like me 1st and always hinting but not from my side more than frnd but I decided to propose him on his b'day this year June 2026 nd ....I was stabbed by the new he got someone ( even though that news i hot from my deactivate ness🥲) and i didn't create a scene but I kinda other day spill out that I wanted to confess him and he end up with silly reason that caste issue and nonsense like dude he was the one who all this ask to get mareied to me and all...and suddenly....but he didn't refuse at first to be with me....nd 2 day after come with exuseue and after many say blocked me on insta even though for a long time ...I alredy unfollowed him as I was anger cuz I found this actions sus ....that his mom handling insta and one sus girl in his insta id........whom he say wifeee h meri🙂.. I was so done with this that I don't want that frndship too ...but yeah other hand I miss him.........but but I will suggest u to next be frnd with him cuz eventually u will hurt urself again ....more or less after sometime u might started liking him and as u know how. Things end nowdays no one is trust worthy and where was he when he left i for her.... And if can survive that time without him u can now too no need to be frnd with him ...i will suggest 🥲 cuz all they do is hurt !!! All promises are fake ( thank you and sorry that I braged my story too😭)

Another soul answered...

I'll be brutally honest. Good you dont have feelingsfor him. But trust me, dont be his friend, I am going thru a lot of stuff with my friend and my brain does this thing that forgets all the bad stuff they do to me due to which I think they are good itself and hence they take advantage of that. Trust me. I know it hurts, I know ur brains is manipulating you but he ghosted you. And abt u being the reason he broke up, thats not fair. he is dumping this on u, making u feel like u r the reason of his break up and hence making you feel like you must date him. It is NOT ok. so my strong opinion. NO. Dont even talk to him. Its fine if u dont have anyone. having no one is better than having ppl like that. I am saying this from my view. I am breaking this one friendship of mine and I have no one else either. So just dont go to him.

Another soul answered...

No it is not. The version of him you like existed and no longer exists now. You don’t have to be friends with a guy who has been 2 faced who cannot take a stand for you in front of his ex, can you imagine what he might do in future? I know feelings don’t go away so easily but just because of feelings you don’t have to force yourself to stay in a place where you don’t belong to, you deserve a person who loves you truely and this guy here is just trying to play around with you. Telling you are his type and all is just a fake trope girl don’t fall for it give it a thought and move on you deserve best