Someone once asked...

“So the thing is that I like a guy and I am guy too and all the people around me doesn't know that I am bisexual or anything but last night I was thinking whether should I come out to them or should I stay hidden in the shadows forever cause like i don't want things to end between my straight friends and maybe I know I can never come out to anyone at all either but is it gonna be fair for me ?? Everyone in my grp talks about their good times with their girlfriend but I am sitting there alone thinking of my time with my guy but ofcourse I cannot share that with anyone of them is that ok or not??”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Well that is a big thing, and ofcourse it seems scary, but I don’t think you should stay hidden forever, that’s gonna really affect you mentally. And trust me, if they are your real friends, they would understand you, they won’t just leave you be. And if not, then you deserve better. I think you should be true to yourself. Because you deserve to live freely I also know that it’s easier said than done, but it’s the right thing to do. And if you are already with the guy you love, that’s great, I don’t think you should validate your life to anyone. You should just be yourself and be happy,

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Another soul answered...

i'd say.... if you trust your friends first try to tell them that you are a bisexual, cause i mean they need to know who you are rather than whom you like right and they are your friends after all.... About your guy, if you think you can't handle your feeling try opening up to him... because trying something is better than doing nothing right

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