“So the thing is my gf left whithout telling me anything just randomly and she said her sister knows about me and so her brother but when I asked her freind she created another insta id blocked me from there and she didn't even said anything just said it would ruin her life what should I do she loving and unloving at the same times”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Its because she cant trust anyone. In the past she may have trusted someone and betrayed. So she is keeping everyone at a distance. She cant bring anyone close to her because she thinks about them leaving. You should know that it's not your fault. If you really love her it might be very hard and take too much time and energy to bring her out of that