So rn I'm in 12th grade which is almost over and when I was in 10th grade I had a classmate on which I had crush on but I never told anyone, later on after 10th was over school gave holiday and I got his follow request on my phone i accepted it and he then used to reply to my stories and flirt but I tried to keep it civil and friendly way I liked him but I didn't want to date cause it was only 10th . He then once during our talking stage sent me a reel to which I replied and when I sent a reel he replied after two days and he's not the type to not check his phone or dms he's a total fboy, and most of girls were drooling over him but anyways... So when he replied to my reel after twoo days I said so are we ignoring each other now to which he replied yeah then I just left that on seen and didn't reply and this was all during March then after a few months I removed him from my friends then in dec he gave me a request again but I didn't accept and he used to try to talk to me in class but I always gave him Backtalked him... Then now a few weeks ago he followed me again and this time I accepted it I was like I'll follow him and if he starts talking rubbish I'll just backtalk him and then he replied to one of my stories flirting and flirting and I talk backed about him to him replying him all rude,yet he was flirting which was annoying then I didn't went to my class for a week and when I went there one of my friend told me that during the week when I was absent that guy's girl best friend told my friend that the guy has a crush on me and I was shocked ofc then after that day I took a week off again (I had plans) then when I went back to regular class my friend was excited to tell me smth moree I asked her what and then she told me that the guy was given a bet by his friend that if he manages to woo me over and ride bike with him he'll give 1000rs which was so absurd I just don't understand whether what to do

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So rn I'm in 12th grade which is almost over and when I was in 10th grade I had a classmate on which I had crush on but I never told anyone, later on after 10th was over school gave holiday and I got his follow request on my phone i accepted it and he then used to reply to my stories and flirt but I tried to keep it civil and friendly way I liked him but I didn't want to date cause it was only 10th . He then once during our talking stage sent me a reel to which I replied and when I sent  a reel he replied after two days and he's not the type to not check his phone or dms he's a total fboy, and most of girls were drooling over him but anyways... So when he replied to my reel after twoo days I said so are we ignoring each other now to which he replied yeah then I just left that on seen and didn't reply and this was all during March then after a few months I removed him from my friends then in dec he gave me a request again but I didn't accept and he used to try to talk to me in class but I always gave him Backtalked him... Then now a few weeks ago he followed me again and this time I accepted it I was like I'll follow him and if he starts talking rubbish I'll just backtalk him and then he replied to one of my stories flirting and flirting and I talk backed about him to him replying him all rude,yet he was flirting which was annoying then I didn't went to my class for a week and when I went there one of my friend told me that during the week when I was absent that guy's girl best friend told my friend that the guy has a crush on me and I was shocked ofc then after that day I took a week off again (I had plans) then when I went back to regular class my friend was excited to tell me smth moree I asked her what and then she told me that the guy was given a bet by his friend that if he manages to woo me over and ride bike with him he'll give 1000rs which was so absurd I just don't understand whether what to do

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Dear Girl,

I understand it can be annoying , overwhelming or situation where ur thinking what the hell.

For now simply dont react, dont engage further with guy or his girl bestfirend or any other. Just ignore,thinking he is just a silly boy and if he doesnt stop bothering you definitely talk to a parent , someone who can guide you realtime.