so right now i js shifted to a whole new place and a new school leaving the place which i called home for almost 7 years and having spent almost half of my life there till now feels really weird. Even tho it alr been an entire year since i left... i dont seem to like this new place my friends are shit and there is this one girl who i wanna impress but i dont think i look good enough to be w her and on top of that some people who i thought were good friends here decided to turn their backs on me and when i asked them about it they js told me to stop overreacting and to stop pulling them down.

so naturally i come home all exhausted and stuff, then at home my parents expect a lot from me and i am not even able to meet their minimum, like all they want is good marks but they never really asked me what i want. so everyday i js come home and talk with these so called "friends" who hv their own ppl and their own besr friends and yea watch reels eat and disappoint my parents thats all i do.

And thats wat i was struggling to tell anyone, hope u guys can understand wat i mean i dont really use punctuations much🙏🙏.

anyways see you👋👋

Question

so right now i js shifted to a whole new place and a new school leaving the place which i called home for almost 7 years and having spent almost half of my life there till now feels really weird. Even tho it alr been an entire year since i left... i dont seem to like this new place my friends are shit and there is this one girl who i wanna impress but i dont think i look good enough to be w her and on top of that some people who i thought were good friends here decided to turn their backs on me and when i asked them about it they js told me to stop overreacting and to stop pulling them down.

so naturally i come home all exhausted and stuff, then at home my parents expect a lot from me and i am not even able to meet their minimum, like all they want is good marks but they never really asked me what i want. so everyday i js come home and talk with these so called "friends" who hv their own ppl and their own besr friends and yea watch reels eat and disappoint my parents thats all i do.

And thats wat i was struggling to tell anyone, hope u guys can understand wat i mean i dont really use punctuations much🙏🙏.

anyways see you👋👋

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Lets get there step by step

(pls ignore my punctuations too...)

I know the feeling of shifting , I shifted 2 years back , but thankfully its not far from my old home, if that's the case with you too , then you can go meet your friends whenever you like (you should).
If its really far , the weekends are really a good time to catch up , find a cafe middle way , or anything , your stuff basically and just get there to meet up

Now about the  new society part, yeah , people can be real trash , but listen , are they really like that the whole time or just around you? Find about that . Get to know what they do , what sports they watch and play , their hobbies, these are really some good points to connect with them , even you can figure something out that i missed.. 
Try this and just give some time , hopefully things will work out  you know. It can take them time to accept you and you should be aware about it.
Now, even after your efforts still they leave you out or do something unacceptable, it is upto you to take your call ,  no one will call you out , just be yourself bro , thats the key

about the  girl stuff, yeah if she's in the group you have to make friends with everyone and don't just go all in and say it. Get to know her and everyone, just mould in this society and their ways to get an idea of everything , its just the basics of everything  i dont know how you carry it further , sorry about that

About your parents, they expect from us because they want us to do something good with our life. The marks are just a tool to get you anything in academics , they wish you understand it and work hard. Just don't let youself burn-out, have some breaks - on a weekend or some quality time etc.  Just keep in mind that your mental health is not being harmed . If you have a really good mental health , you can pull off literally anything , just make some timetable  or schedule for STUDY (not the  assignments). That should do it

And about reels, yeah you can just cut some time daily and avoid watching right after waking up. Once you figure academics out , I am sure you won't be getting lectures on reels

that's it from my side ....
PEACE