“So recently i broke up with my boyfriend, and it was like he kinda lost interst and all and was telling me we should break up and we are not meant for eachother because we always argue literally most of the times and he needed peace more than anything, and he blamed me for always arguing and fighting, i thought maybe if I just adjust and all he will change but i realised that I was talking about my needs and he was not even giving me basic needs , I'll tell you something he once send a flirty message reply to some girl on Instagram, like i was really upset with him about that, like that girl was obviously, openly intersted in him , and she complimented on one of a video of him playing guitar, I mean saying thank you is completely fine but flirting with her , I was upset and other thing he did was talking to his girl bestfriend who confessed to him about feelings for him , he rejected her , this was before our relationship, but yeah they remained friends, i disliked he obviously, he knows that too, one night she called , after midnight, after 12, while he was talking to her , i called, he was on another call , he didn't pick up my call, when i asked who it was he said let's talk tomorrow, I asked again he repeated the same , so I asked if it was his girl bestfriend, he said yes , like she called okay , but after midnight, didn't pick up my call, and didn't tell me who he was talking to , didn't call me back until about 2 hours , they were talking up to 2:30 am yeah, and i remember before this incident happened i said i don't like her, and he reassured they don't even talk everyday, but guesswhat after that she called him everyday, they take everyday, and chat everyday and so tell me I still stayed with him , until he was tired of me , i mean there are more things to tell but I can't include all in this paragraph but tell me is it my problem that we broke up”
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Someone answered with kindness...
no u did the right thing ig cause if he cant have his priorities straight and not make time for u or reassure u ofc not all the time but as ur bf he should not be flirting with girls that arent his gf and his girl bestie even after knowing she once had feelings for he continued talking thats not a green flag then theres nothign wrong with u breaking up with him ig thats what i feel