“So my boyfriend of eight months, it was not supposed to be for this long. It was supposed to be a cash short-term thing, but we got attached and it’s and every three months or so. He gets scared, anxious and I have to reassure him and we get through it and today it was at eight month dating anniversary, kind of and I asked. I told him like happy like this even important, and then I told him if you want to be with me, I asked them that, and then he was like I don’t think I wanna date anymore. It’s not you. It’s me. I he does have a lot of mental health. I don’t know if it’s mental health or like you know issues like that, he told me it’s not you. I just feel like I need to be by myself right now and I feel bad about this relationship from the beginning. I feel guilty. I regret doing things to you and this is not right. You don’t get anything or relationship. We should be friends blah blah, so I need to tell me what to do to make him believe that this was the best thing I could’ve asked for her that he was so much and I don’t want anything out of this relationship that I just want him to be with me, and that he should not require anything. What could I possibly do which will make him want me more and want to be with me.”
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Someone answered with kindness...
You really can't force anyone to be with u like u can't make them like u more if that's not their intention .so like u just have to accept it