“so ive got a crush on my best friend, typical situtation ik sos...but the thing is i feel so so angry at myself for liking her and the fact that i get INSANELY jealous around her bc other people just get her attention way more than me and its like why wont u choose me im right hre but i know she has a life that obviously doesnt revolve around me ns its like it hurts so bad bc i think she might have a crush on somebody but ik it willnever be me. it could never ever in any universe be me who she loves. yes shes a great and lovely friend and is always there for me but she hurts me too in ways she will never know, whether it be her dry reponses or the way she chooses other people obver me i just cant help but fall in love with her even more and more day afteer day. but i genuinely need to get out of this neverending loop and get my life in control right now, she wont be there for me when im down, im the only one i have to help. so please, how can i stop obsessing over this girl and actually focus on myself”
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I think you should tell her what you feel and all and if she rejects then it will be easier to move on. My friend also had a crush on someone and when she proposed him, he didn't accept and eventually she moved on.