“So it’s my birthday after few days and I have a boyfriend okay? And I’ve been with him for the past two years and it’s my third birthday with him. And on the first year that we had birthday together to be honest kinda lied to me like he told me his mom was sick and then he went out with his friends and I found out about that way later but next day he came to my house and we celebrated but it was okay. She he bought cake bought a huge giant bouquet so I was okay with that. I don’t want expensive things okay? Or I don’t want huge surprises. I’m a very simple girl. All I want is someone to celebrate my day someone who loves my birthday like they want to make me feel special a simple cake even one rose would mean a lot to me if they put a bit of effort to it so yeah on my second birthday with him he did nothing I mean totally nothing like he wished me on my birthday yeah that wish was very pretty and everything the next day I thought he was gonna surprise me because on the first birthday he couldn’t surprise me well right and everyone to be honest like my friends my family me we always have this expectations from him because he’s such a great guy like we all thought he’s such a great guy who would do anything for me but my second birthday came and as I said everyone thought he’d do something this year right? Cause he couldn’t do anything the first year second birthday came he was at nine the next day I was waiting that he’ll do something for me. We go out we celebrate even if he doesn’t do that much extravagant things. I don’t want that but. At least we’ll go out he’ll give me flowers I mean that’s the least you could do right but he didn’t. We didn’t meet nothing not one single flower absolutely nothing I was home alone all day literally sobbing because it feels bad. You know when you have no one to celebrate your birthday with that’s how my birthday went and guess what? It was my 18th birthday so I had really high expectations of wanting to celebrate my 18th birthday now my birthday is in a few days and this year also he isn’t gonna do anything. He already told me he won’t be able to and it sucks cause I thought this is my third birthday with him. He do so much because he couldn’t do it the last two times but he already told me who won’t be able to and only 2 to 3 days not three days also two days are left and I know him he won’t actually do anything so you know it sucks I’ve told him it’s fine who cares about birthdays anyways but I have a girl girls Love❤️🩹, but right it’s all a loving but it’s about the fact that you have a boyfriend and he’s willing to do anything for you on your birthday. I wanna feel that happiness on my birthday too. I wanna get surprised. I wanna have fun but never I could never and he knows that I’ve never really celebrated my birthday but still he never does anything and it feels bad because he’s the only person I had expectations from and this is the third time he’s disappointing my expectations and I don’t know what to do because without him I can’t even celebrate my birthday cause I don’t have much friends and to be honest, I don’t like celebrating my birthday like you know plan you yourself planning the whole thing for your birthday. I’m not that kind of yeah what else to say? I just hope he would do something.”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Its okay bbg....one thing I wanna ask u is....is he ignorant abt u in other things also like other than bdays? Bcoz if he is thats bad for u....or he is just like this on ur birthdays...u need to have an open conversation with him a very polite and honest conversation where u talk abt ur expectations....coz he need to know le that u expect efforts on ur bday. Try talking it out in an open and kind conversation. I hope it gets okay