“So, I'm a university student it's been more than 2 years i don't have friends, like there are some people i talk to but when their main friends come they don't talk to me. Like there is a girl at beginning she was very sweet but later she started being a bitch like she would call my friend to walk around when there are no classes or to eat lunch but she would not ask me to join even if I'm right there. And she'll call my friend to hang around but not me but even my other friend doesn't invite me. I feel really lonely in university and don't feel like going.”

Another soul answered...

Oh sweetheart! That girl and your friend both are at fault. That friend is not YOUR friend anymore. I know being alone is bad at starting. But honestly.. I experienced the same few years ago. Enjoy YOUR company. Leave both of them. Mark my words. Just imagine I am your future self.. Both of them do not exist in your life. Once college is completed, nothing will matter anymore. Neither that bitchy girl or your so not your friend. Just do as I say. Leave everything and everyone. If you need a day. Take a day off from college. But not to rest or not to heal. You must have some uniform of your college. If yes, prepare that uniform. If no, prepare a formal dress you can wear to college next day. 1. Decide your outfit. 2. Proper decent and colour combination 3. Make sure it matches your body type and something different from whatever you wear daily. May be ethinic touch. 4. Wash those clothes. Whatever you choose to wear. Wash it. 5. Iron it. Make your outfit ready. 6. Prepare all topics you think professors had explained when you're off. Just one one topic. 7. And after preparing. Go to mirror and explain all those topics to yourself. 8. Prepare little bit extra so you can answer in class. 9. In evening, go outside. Alone. Whatever place that suits you. Go to eat your fav dish. 10. Skincare and water bottle Now, next day.. wear that outfit, add some minimal jewellery, like rings, bracelet, pendant, earings, nosering, or most basic a wrist-watch. Make a new hairstyle. Minimal makeup. 1. Facewash 2. Moisturizer 3. Sunscreen 4. Lipbalm 5. Lipstick This is basic. I do this when I am not in mood to do makeup. It protects your skin and basic. You can do more if you're comfortable. Now, when you go to college. Go on time. Or 2 3 mins early. Others will compliment you. Your hairstyle or they'll say.. you look different why don't you be like this everyday. Those two girls will not like this. Definitely. IGNORE THEM. THE WHOLE DAY. DON'T TALK TO THEM UNTIL THEY COME TO YOU. DON'T GO EVEN IF THEY INVITE YOU. SELF RESPECT DARLING!! If you do so, I am not your future self then.. that will be eww to your self respect if you went back to them... Now, talk to those who will compliment you. Stick to them.. not directly. Ask for help. Be bold. Ask for something like if I am asking you've to do it. That's the rule. Rule of humanity. If someone isn't helping you they're bad people so they should help you. Ask for notes of yesterday classes. Ask random things.. sit close to them.. or sit on the first bench.. I preferred first bench alone.. in lucnch or recess.. go to the random group of girls.. like how have you all been.. go to them like you're their friend. Put hand on someone's shoulder and ask.. "this class was so boring.. I got an headache".. they'll include you. And you can do this all as they are your classmates. BUT SIT ALONE AND EAT ALONE UNTIL SOMEONE OTHER THAN THOSE TWO GIRLS INVITE YOU. Talk to guys if you're comfortable. They are good company when you need. After two days.. someone will definitely invite you. I assure you. And you'll make best friends of your life so that when you'll leave university after graduation baby you'll cry. Talk to everyone. Make them need you. Get involve in every conversation. And a secret tip.. act like you're thinking of someone as a safe space and oversharing. You'll overshare but not too much that'll harm you.. basically you'll overshare intentionally. You'll share whatever you want to be shared or get circulated.. tell people stories about your school friends.. may be lie.. but tell them.. my school friends used to treat me so better. I never knew people could be so bad here. I feel so alone.. they used to tie my shoelaces, feed me, pamper me, I miss my school friends. Say this to a person you think is too much pure hearted or an empath. If you'll do this I promise you'll think of my message and thank me in your mind always. Always remember.. be bold, be confident, eat healthy, study properly, people just matter according to time.. in university, these people are around you so they matter. After this in some company, your team members will matter and these people will become someone you'll forget. Stay happy 💗 stay blessed. (Sunshine)