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“So I was in a relationship with a guy and then we broke up because he said his family won’t agree so I tried moving on and I started dating again and found a guy whom I thought was very good and we intimate with each other but later on I got to know he was so possessive and toxic ( he was good but he was verbally abusive) and at the point of time my ex also came back and got emotional as he came to know k got involve with someone else and later tried to convince me to come back to him I refused as I know how it ended he didn’t even gave it a chance or he didn’t have guts to stand up for us and at the same time I also broke up with that new guy because he was a bit too obsessed with me which was growing into toxicity and later on I thought giving me ex a chance because as he tried getting back to me and got me kinda attach to him but now he is acting weird saying he can’t move on the fact that I got intimate with someone else, so now I am feeling guilty and being sorry for something I don’t think I have complete fault because I tried so much for to get back with my ex during my move on phase I just don’t know what to do now because I am attach once again and he seems like he don’t care but the thing is also that he can’t forget I got intimate with someone else so I don’t know who’s fault it is”

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Someone answered with kindness...

You need to know that you didnt really have a future with the second guy you dated cause of his toxicity. Being intimate and opening to one another is part of love. Lust is something that is part of love. Lust is natural woth people you love, are open to or are comfortable with. So i want you to understand that the fact that you are now commited to your ex and want to build a futurw woth him is proof enoigh that rven thoigh u were intimate with someone else during thag time u want a future with your current partner. Your ex needs to u derstand that your life js now looking forward to moments woth him/her not with they person you left who ypu weree once intimate with. So i hope he/she understands that and like you can both be happy together

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Another soul answered...

I really don't know my advice is a kind or maybe not,, but gurll u should just move on and never going back to your ex like srly broo he leave u at one point, without even try to convince his parents about both yours relationship and now when u kinda move on from him ,,he just re appeared like nothing happened,, dudee Just move on ik it's really hard to but,, it's the most honest and sensible advice you'll everrr get !! So,, pls listen to me and don't ever give him another chance,, always remember he was not there when u needed him the most !! So Nd sorry if u find this advice brutal !!

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