So I was groomed at the age of 17 and the man was teacher of mine I was with him for 7 years he is married with 2 daughters elder to me. I had low self esteem in the beginning I trusted him that he won't do anything wrong with me but then I realized what he actually did so he started abusing me and r*ped me I cut my wrist and tried to escape from there but after 11 months he again came and blackmailed so I lodged the case and the case is going on. Now my current bf knows everything about the incident.
In the beginning of this new relationship I told him that this took place but in brief only. But after the case everything surfaced and now my current bf judges me that its part of my fault. My bf wants to continue this relationship coz he likes me but not able to move on from my past.

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So I was groomed at the age of 17 and the man was teacher of mine I was with him for 7 years he is married with 2 daughters elder to me. I had low self esteem in the beginning I trusted him that he won't do anything wrong with me but then I realized what he actually did so he started abusing me and r*ped me I cut my wrist and tried to escape from there but after 11 months he again came and blackmailed so I lodged the case and the case is going on. Now my current bf knows everything about the incident. 
In the beginning of this new relationship I told him that this took place but in brief only. But after the case everything surfaced and now my current bf judges me that its part of my fault. My bf wants to continue this relationship coz he likes me but not able to move on from my past.

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Gurl...first of all that guy isn't for you,you deserve the world not a man who judges for you on something that isn't even your fault