So, I saw this girl on Instagram in one of her friend's reels a few years ago. Time passed, and eventually I found her Instagram. It was private, so over time I also searched for and came across her other socials. And somehow, slowly, I've become attached to her. Idk why, but I've seen her and there's just something about her. I genuinely feel like I want to know her.

Ik some people might find it ridiculous how someone can get attached to a person who doesn't even know they exist, but somehow it happened with me. And I also know people might say that she could be completely different from how she presents herself on social media, and I understand that. I'm not saying I know everything about her or that I know what she's actually like in real life. But from whatever I've seen and understood over time, I've somehow formed this feeling that I can't really explain. Idk how to put it into words, and I know it might sound ridiculous, but I'm not making this up or pretending to feel something.

The issue is that we don't have any mutuals, we live in different cities, and honestly, idk what to do anymore. 😭 Ik all of this sounds weird or creepy, but please trust me when I say I'm not pretending or making any of this up. I genuinely want some help because I'm tired of figuring this out all alone.

I just want to connect with her somehow. And the thing is, I know there could be so many people sending her requests, and I don't want to be just another random guy doing the same thing. I don't want to come across as someone who's just trying his luck.

It's just that I genuinely want to connect with her, and all I really want is for her to get a chance to know the real me. But how am I supposed to do that? If I send her a request online, it's literally a stranger reaching out to another stranger, and that sounds weird. I don't blame her at all because, honestly, if I were in her place, I probably wouldn't accept a random stranger's request either.

And another thing is, even though I've found her socials, I still don't know whether I should actually send her a request because I'm scared of coming across as some weird or creepy stranger. I keep going back and forth about it, and that's what's confusing me even more.

I just need some way out of this situation, but I'm genuinely unable to figure out what to do. Sometimes I've even thought about meeting her in person, but how am I even supposed to make that happen? 😭

And the thing is, it's been almost 2.5 years now. We literally have no mutuals. I've even thought about reaching out to one of her friends because they have a public account, but then again, that would feel so weird and I don't want to put anyone in an uncomfortable position.

So please, if anyone can genuinely help me figure out a way to approach this situation, I'd be really grateful. I just need some honest advice because I don't know what else to do at this point.

Question

So, I saw this girl on Instagram in one of her friend's reels a few years ago. Time passed, and eventually I found her Instagram. It was private, so over time I also searched for and came across her other socials. And somehow, slowly, I've become attached to her. Idk why, but I've seen her and there's just something about her. I genuinely feel like I want to know her.

Ik some people might find it ridiculous how someone can get attached to a person who doesn't even know they exist, but somehow it happened with me. And I also know people might say that she could be completely different from how she presents herself on social media, and I understand that. I'm not saying I know everything about her or that I know what she's actually like in real life. But from whatever I've seen and understood over time, I've somehow formed this feeling that I can't really explain. Idk how to put it into words, and I know it might sound ridiculous, but I'm not making this up or pretending to feel something.

The issue is that we don't have any mutuals, we live in different cities, and honestly, idk what to do anymore. 😭 Ik all of this sounds weird or creepy, but please trust me when I say I'm not pretending or making any of this up. I genuinely want some help because I'm tired of figuring this out all alone.

I just want to connect with her somehow. And the thing is, I know there could be so many people sending her requests, and I don't want to be just another random guy doing the same thing. I don't want to come across as someone who's just trying his luck.

It's just that I genuinely want to connect with her, and all I really want is for her to get a chance to know the real me. But how am I supposed to do that? If I send her a request online, it's literally a stranger reaching out to another stranger, and that sounds weird. I don't blame her at all because, honestly, if I were in her place, I probably wouldn't accept a random stranger's request either.

And another thing is, even though I've found her socials, I still don't know whether I should actually send her a request because I'm scared of coming across as some weird or creepy stranger. I keep going back and forth about it, and that's what's confusing me even more.

I just need some way out of this situation, but I'm genuinely unable to figure out what to do. Sometimes I've even thought about meeting her in person, but how am I even supposed to make that happen? 😭

And the thing is, it's been almost 2.5 years now. We literally have no mutuals. I've even thought about reaching out to one of her friends because they have a public account, but then again, that would feel so weird and I don't want to put anyone in an uncomfortable position.

So please, if anyone can genuinely help me figure out a way to approach this situation, I'd be really grateful. I just need some honest advice because I don't know what else to do at this point.

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

its just attraction/initial phase jaha insta me har dusri ladki pasand aa jaati h ..ya to khud ki profile tagdi bnao(in insta ,and in real life) otherwise just move on jb tk physical/IRL usse mila nahi/baat nahi ki ,kuch nahi hone waala