So, I saw this girl on Instagram in one of her friend's reels a few years ago. Time passed, and eventually I found her Instagram. It was private, so over time I also searched for and came across her other socials. And somehow, slowly, I've become attached to her. Idk why, but I've seen her and there's just something about her. I genuinely feel like I want to know her.

The issue is that we don't have any mutuals, we live in different cities, and honestly, idk what to do anymore. 😭 Ik all of this sounds weird or creepy, but please trust me when I say I'm not pretending or making any of this up. I genuinely want some help because I'm tired of figuring this out all alone.

I just want to connect with her somehow. And the thing is, I know there could be so many people sending her requests, and I don't want to be just another random guy doing the same thing. I don't want to come across as someone who's just trying his luck.

It's just that I genuinely want to connect with her, and all I really want is for her to get a chance to know the real me. But how am I supposed to do that? If I send her a request online, it's literally a stranger reaching out to another stranger, and that sounds weird. I don't blame her at all because, honestly, if I were in her place, I probably wouldn't accept a random stranger's request either.

And another thing is, even though I've found her socials, I still don't know whether I should actually send her a request because I'm scared of coming across as some weird or creepy stranger. I keep going back and forth about it, and that's what's confusing me even more.

I just need some way out of this situation, but I'm genuinely unable to figure out what to do. Sometimes I've even thought about meeting her in person, but how am I even supposed to make that happen? 😭

And the thing is, it's been almost 2.5 years now. We literally have no mutuals. I've even thought about reaching out to one of her friends because they have a public account, but then again, that would feel so weird and I don't want to put anyone in an uncomfortable position.

So please, if anyone can genuinely help me figure out a way to approach this situation, I'd be really grateful. I just need some honest advice because I don't know what else to do at this point.

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So, I saw this girl on Instagram in one of her friend's reels a few years ago. Time passed, and eventually I found her Instagram. It was private, so over time I also searched for and came across her other socials. And somehow, slowly, I've become attached to her. Idk why, but I've seen her and there's just something about her. I genuinely feel like I want to know her.

The issue is that we don't have any mutuals, we live in different cities, and honestly, idk what to do anymore. 😭 Ik all of this sounds weird or creepy, but please trust me when I say I'm not pretending or making any of this up. I genuinely want some help because I'm tired of figuring this out all alone.

I just want to connect with her somehow. And the thing is, I know there could be so many people sending her requests, and I don't want to be just another random guy doing the same thing. I don't want to come across as someone who's just trying his luck.

It's just that I genuinely want to connect with her, and all I really want is for her to get a chance to know the real me. But how am I supposed to do that? If I send her a request online, it's literally a stranger reaching out to another stranger, and that sounds weird. I don't blame her at all because, honestly, if I were in her place, I probably wouldn't accept a random stranger's request either.

And another thing is, even though I've found her socials, I still don't know whether I should actually send her a request because I'm scared of coming across as some weird or creepy stranger. I keep going back and forth about it, and that's what's confusing me even more.

I just need some way out of this situation, but I'm genuinely unable to figure out what to do. Sometimes I've even thought about meeting her in person, but how am I even supposed to make that happen? 😭

And the thing is, it's been almost 2.5 years now. We literally have no mutuals. I've even thought about reaching out to one of her friends because they have a public account, but then again, that would feel so weird and I don't want to put anyone in an uncomfortable position.

So please, if anyone can genuinely help me figure out a way to approach this situation, I'd be really grateful. I just need some honest advice because I don't know what else to do at this point.

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

this is soooo cute. You a boy? , If I'm being honest this is really twisted. But I do recommend sending the message to the pubic accound friend and if it doesn't go in our way meet her and say everything u wanna say ,i o assume u know all the details about her through stalking