“So I love this boy and we were friends then situationship on and off then 1 month relationship back to friends then again situationship then again friends now (all this happened in the past 1 year)
We had avoidant- anxious dynamic and I am anxious one and yes I agree my anxiety and overthinking also made things thought but the only diff was i still wanted to find way and he was done
And now he said he just wants to be friends and his feelings are next to nothing now
Idk how and what do I do
We are friends
But i still feel like i am not purely just behaving as a friend
Like for normal friends I can go days without talking
With him I wonder what if I don't talk and he thinks I need space or distance or I moved on or I don't want to talk or I have ego or whatever”
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Someone answered with kindness...
That's perhaps because ur attached to him and even though he says let's just be friends but that directly doesn't make ur feelings less so yeah talking about this would help maybe