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“So I have been talking to this guy for 2 weeks now ...he lives quite far away (same country tho) um so not my proudest moment but we got very freaky at the 1 week mark and um I showed him my body..first time ever showing a man my body and I just feel weird ...I did enjoy myself kinda ig, I am just unsure whether he likes me or my body ...the next day after we got freaky he begged me to show my body again and I did (I know very stupid of me) and he enjoyed himself but I didn't and I almost cried cause I felt very vulnerable and he was concerned but it didn't feel so genuine yk...he keeps saying he will come to my city and we'llmeet but he also feels very distant and not that interested in me ...my body is the least interesting thing about me..i just don'tknow ...i am scared, it was my first being like that with a guy and i am scared what if he took screenshots and i just feel so conflicted...he seems interested, tells me about his day and gives me update but the next day he'll say he is bored mid convo when i thoughtwe were having fun ..I can't tell about these things to anyone cause I am ashamed and I feel disgusted with myself and I feel like I am continuing to entertain this guy because I owe myself that after showing myself to.him but I also find myself giggling over his texts ...just a whirlwind of emotions and can someone please help me and tell me how to deal with this”

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Hyyy gurlll . What I wud sayy is u should definitely stop interacting with this guy . By reading this I can clearly I understand that he might using you for his own entertainment, u myt have enjoyed a bit because it was new to u . In my opinion , the right person will be waiting for you out there somewhere. You'll meet him at the right time. A real man would not love you for body but would love you for you and he stops mid convo and stuff clearly means he lost interest in you. And good luck . Take career

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