So I have been in a relationship since 3 years with my boyfriend. We are high school students. We love eachother alot and loyal to eachother. But we frequently have misunderstandings, communication problems. Recently there is a girl in our class getting so close to my boyfriend. And for few days we both gave silent treatment to eachother and few days back we argued and somewhat sorted out the problem and I said don't be close to her. But 2 days back when I was not present I heard from a classmate that they both were sitting together talking laughing and enjoying teasing eachother. What hurted me most is when I am not around he behaves differently with her and when I am present he tries to put distance.
What u want me to do. I am mentally and emotionally lost and confused

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So I have been in a relationship since 3 years with my boyfriend. We are high school students. We love eachother alot and loyal to eachother. But we frequently have misunderstandings, communication problems. Recently there is a girl in our class getting so close to my boyfriend. And for few days we both gave silent treatment to eachother and few days back we argued and somewhat sorted out the problem and I said don't be close to her. But 2 days back when I was not present I heard from a classmate that they both were sitting together talking laughing and enjoying teasing eachother. What hurted me most is when I am not around he behaves differently with her and when I am present he tries to put distance. 
What u want me to do. I am mentally and emotionally lost and confused

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

I hear you!  Being in your shoe my story is the same but the ending was brutal,here even i didn't the sign the guy who showed me , he is showing you the sign ,better notice them and stay alert ,don't try to fix anything girl ,I'll say about brutal truth about men
Men who choose to talk or cheat is not because they like her or your not that much they choose to talk to them , means they are selfish,lack discipline,self control, boundaries so it's never your fault ,my gentle advice plz don't get stuck into trauma bond cuz silent treatment and jealousy everything is beginning of brutal ending