“So I have an unpredic mother, she is all happy and jolly at one moment and the other she just snaps and gets angry and say hurtful things to me. I love her so much but the times that she snaps makes me hate her the same amount. For example if I tell her that I'm doing bad with my academics she'll comfort me and tell me that's okay but after few days she will use the same point and make me feel bad about it . I get really affected by her words and then I i just start hating everything , which I don't want . So is there a way that I i don't let her words hurt me this much ?”
✦
Someone answered with kindness...
If I were you, I'd probably stop telling her stuff, I know it sort of sounds bad but, if you're confiding in her, and trusting that she will comfort you but instead she uses your own words against you later on, it's not worth telling her anything and you should just find someone much better to talk to. Maybe if she notices you pulling back she'll regret it