So, I have a very close friend. We met each other at a job, like ny job was Work from home. We never met each other in real life but we spent our most of the time with each other. We became good friends and we used to love each other's company. After almost 1 year, I resigned from that job but she was still working there. Our friendship was still working. I still used to make some time for her. I got another job and she also changed her job, now she is working in a different company and it's a work from office job. When she left our previous company it took her 1-2 months to find another job, meanwhile I was already working for different company. I used to use my breaks to have a good conversation with her as she was going through a lot. I supported her a lot. Now, it's been almost 1 month we haven't been talked for 1 mins on call. We barely chat, as she don't have enough time. A few months back, I told her that I don't like this at all. I don't even get a single msg from your end in 1 week and if I try to reach you out. You take 3-4 days to reply. She cried and said that I thought you would understand my situation as it's a job and I need some time to settle down. I know I am not giving you enough time but please understand it's unintentional. The conversation was closed. Now, it's been 1 week since my message is on delivered. I called her yesterday no response.
So my question is, what to do now?

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So, I have a very close friend. We met each other at a job, like ny job was Work from home. We never met each other in real life but we spent our most of the time with each other. We became good friends and we used to love each other's company. After almost 1 year, I resigned from that job but she was still working there. Our friendship was still working. I still used to make some time for her. I got another job and she also changed her job, now she is working in a different company and it's a work from office job. When she left our previous company it took her 1-2 months to find another job, meanwhile I was already working for different company. I used to use my breaks to have a good conversation with her as she was going through a lot. I supported her a lot. Now, it's been almost 1 month we haven't been talked for 1 mins on call. We barely chat, as she don't have enough time. A few months back, I told her that I don't like this at all. I don't even get a single msg from your end in 1 week and if I try to reach you out. You take 3-4 days to reply. She cried and said that I thought you would understand my situation as it's a job and I need some time to settle down. I know I am not giving you enough time but please understand it's unintentional. The conversation was closed. Now, it's been 1 week since my message is on delivered. I called her yesterday no response. 
So my question is, what to do now?

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