So I ended my 2 year old relationship and the reason was there from the beginning I just couldn't see it I use to think it's because I'm very sensitive and I get uncomfortable whenever someone touches me even tho he was my boyfriend I still couldn't bear his touch idk why and once he kind of blamed me for not speaking up in the moment it lowkey stayed with me and I ended that relationship cause i couldn't betray my body more did I did the right thing stranger? Will i ever find someone with whom I can be comfortable and put my guard on ease and just enjoy touch? I apologise if I sound desperate it's just a thought in my mind!!

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Hi, See I don't know what you went through and why are you feeling in that way but I think there's must be a reason why you feel uncomfortable. I'll advise you to try to understand yourself and your body so you can figure out what's triggering you. And about the boyfriend part I think what you did was completely normal, you did the right thing. He's your bf he's supposed to understand you and I hope he knew what he signed up for but if he didn't then I'll tell you to let go! And the next time when you'll get into a relationship be open about your problems, like how do you feel and all so both of you can workout together! Lastly remember you're not alone and you are very much worthy of love so don't be stressed, drink some water and have a great day ahead!