So I did not share this with anyone but I was harrased by my cousin brother so when he was 21 so I went to my aunty's house there we stayed like me and my mom so my mom and aunt went outside so it was just me my cousin brother and his sister he came when I was sleeping touched me I woke up cuz I felt someone touching me it happend like 5 years ago then like in 2024 we were attending my uncle's wedding so it was around like 2 or 3 everyone told us don't go stay here in hotel so we did there to he tried to touch me then few days back he came like his mother wanted to buy something so my mother and aunt went inside the shop me and my cousin were waiting in car he was comparing our hand like mine's bigger and all i said your hand is bigger he said I'll show you what else is big I'm not able to move on from this can anyone tell me

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

First of all, i am sorry you have through something like these. These things are completely disheartening and know that you aren't wrong and alone in any way. 
You should voice your discomfort.  Tell him clearly to not touch you in any way, people like these often times use the victim's silence as their biggest confidence. Later in the future when you may confront him, he may even say, you did not say anything to me back then so i thought you liked it as well. So tell him that you do not want to touched by him in any way and that you feel uncomfortable. He cannot go complain about this anyway since he is in the wrong. 
Next, if there's an adult or elderly that you trust completely tell them. Anybody. Somebody that will put him back into place. 
Also if it gets out of hand hit him even. Do not be scared and remember even if people come to know about it he's the one that is wrong and if people do go around saying shit atleast he would have stopped touching you to prove himself right.