So I am in a situation. Where I was dating a guy for 3 years and one year our breakup got stretched. It got messy we fought a lot not out of hatred or anything but it's just that we weren't working out anymore. The conversations and everything just went downhill. And i completely cut him off. After a few months my best friend proposes to me and he is his friend too. Like we are all part of the same group but he really likes me . We bond really well and I have a crazy connection with him . So I say yes to him. And we soon start to get physical which I could never do with my previous boyfriend. But this time it's just different and idk what should I feel about this

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So I am in a situation. Where I was dating a guy for 3 years and one year our breakup got stretched. It got messy we fought a lot not out of hatred or anything but it's just that we weren't working out anymore. The conversations and everything just went downhill.  And i completely cut him off.  After a few months my best friend proposes to me and he is his friend too. Like we are all part of the same group but he really likes me . We bond really well and I have a crazy connection with him . So I say yes to him.  And we soon start to get physical which I could never do with my previous boyfriend. But this time it's just different and idk what should I feel about this

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

If you guys got physical within a really short span of time, honey he doesnt love you. And if u really wanna know his true self see his efforts. See if he pays attention to the details you tell him. See if he knows you hate coffee that u told once on a random Tuesday. See if he initiates dates and plans. See if he would compromise for you. If yes, he is the one, if no; run.