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“So hey !!!.. there's this guy I've dated in my final years of my graduation.. And we dated for 1.5 yr and we were in livin but he cheated on me with the girl he was dating for 5yr .. he abused me before breakup also during the breakup I exposed him to the other girl but she still came back with him and she is giving hard time to him and also not letting him go, she even said he comes back to me 10 times I'll accept him every time, he abused her many times during their relationship but still.. Still I also know lots of lies about her that she use to keep him, I don't want him, I want him to acknowledge my feelings, hurts and wounds.. I want to feel valued that I mattered at some point but whenever in his life anything goes downhill he tries to reach me like I'm the witch who can fix everything.. Last night I talked to him and I didn't sensed any single feeling for me not the acknowledgement he kept talking about him and his relationship.. My every pain and poor health he associates with her, he say he knows because of her .. It's always about her!!! And it hurts.. idk how I ease my pain.. it's been a more than 3 months we are not together and we are not talking and seeing eachother.. he reached me once but I blocked him but last night I talked with him but I'm feeling so uneasy.. it's like my things never existed he is stranger and I never mattered.. Like my feeling is nothing I don't know what to do.. I really want to get over from this, I gave my exclusive version to him and I lost it now I feel so empty and helpless.. I kept my life moving but still it all hurts at some point.”

Update · 2026-11-10

Maybe some people get my one sentence wrong and right one is: "If he comes back to her 10 times she'll accept him every time" And also when he Cheated I just simply left When we were in college, it was in different state and we were in livin there and now college is over we came to our hometown which is different cities.. and the other girl is from the same city as him!!!

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Girl, be toxic, here's a list of things I'd do, and you should too! First, you should make peace with him (trust me), be friends, or acquaintances (babe, trust me), be close enough to meet each other and talk normally (my love, trust me) 1. Make a mixture of warm milk+lots of sugar+sweet milk powder. Mix is properly and put it in a spray bottle. Then go in that man whxxe's car and spray it EVERYYYYYWHERE! Do this preferably on a day when he's away from his car for a few days. This is my favvvv! 🩷 2. Go over to his house, make a mixture of soil and fast growing seeds and keep it in his rug, carpet, door mat, under the bed etc, and moisten it. By the time he's back from his holiday, there will be a garden! 🌱 3. Go to every annoying website that you can find, by annoying I mean websites which always pester customers by calling and emailing to get a subscription and all. And give his number and details on all of them. And once he unsubscribes, subscribe it again, let that bxxch go crazy. ✨✨ 4. Send him expensiveeeee gifts, but on cash on delivery!! If possible, try to send him un-returnable goods, like really expensive underwears, or luxury perfumes, your call! Do this one cautiously though 😂 I have soooo much more, but i can't think right now! Enjoy babe! 💋

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जो लड़की हमें चाहिए उसे हम नहीं चाहिए और जिसे हम चाहिए वो किसको चाहिए? lol aap friendzone /used ho chuki ho used bhi nahi hi kahunga bcs you only went into that spiral even after knowing where and what you are choosing investing time and effforts and then expecting same things in return ? lol it doesnt works in that way sadly but yeah learn from your mistakes and dont repeat them in future but but also remember there are still many many boys out there who are equally loving and respectful just like you ,so yeah be careful while choosing with whom you are sharing your mental /physical emotional energy with

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