“so basicslly theres this guy bsf of mine,we are close and frnds from years.he knows my family and vice versa.and he knows everything abt my life. tbh im a red flag person and havent had much nice relationships in past . my ex was a red flag and he cheated and shit which made me develpo trust issues and become a red flag.my guy bsf is aware that i have had multiple talking stages and he calls me a "laundabazz" but recently theres this other guy who i have known for a few months in my choaching and this guy and me are talking and he seems very serious abt me.hes the first guy who really feel like is"obbsessed" with me like he is starting to annoy me but whatever. this guy then also went on to try to be frnds with my guy bsf and like got very clingy in me and my guy bsfs life. and alot of incidents happened and for te first time my guy bsf is getting bad vibes from him cause this guy tried to distance me and my guy bsf in a grp hangout of ours.my guy bsf said that guy tried to PUSH him away during photos.my bsf also said that he feels like this is the first guy who feels like a threat to our friendship. but idk this guy is very green flag.no bad history and cares alot the only prob is hes too coward and not the type of person who figths and all.like not the guy who would fight for u. so what do u think is my guy bsf's problem.”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Hii,
I think you should listen to your friends coz firstly the person who you are on talking stage with , even if he is serious like literal serious or any thing they will never create a distance from your own friends okk . So if u are hanging out try hanging out separately with your frnds and the guy ... and maybe your guy bf is being protective of you since you went through so much last time