Since Jan this year, I have been talking to this guy i met on a dating app. The first 3-4 months were really, really good. I never once doubted his feelings for me (and vice-versa)
It is now November. We have been only on 2 dates because of our inconsistent schedules.
But I really cannot tell what his intentions are. I am someone that wants a proper long term relationship.
He's told me he loves me a couple of times in the beginning (not in the recent times)
He also has a friend whose posts he used to comment REALLY flirty things on. When I confronted him, he clarified that she is just a friend. I am not sure about their current interaction.
But yes, I am super confused. I don't want to straight up confront him out of the fear of ruining things.
The communication pattern has definitely changed a LOT over the last few months.
I am confused, anxious and worried. I don't want the last few months to be a waste of time, energy and feelings.

Question

Since Jan this year, I have been talking to this guy i met on a dating app. The first 3-4 months were really, really good. I never once doubted his feelings for me (and vice-versa)
It is now November. We have been only on 2 dates because of our inconsistent schedules.
But I really cannot tell what his intentions are. I am someone that wants a proper long term relationship. 
He's told me he loves me a couple of times in the beginning (not in the recent times)
He also has a friend whose posts he used to comment REALLY flirty things on. When I confronted him, he clarified that she is just a friend. I am not sure about their current interaction.
But yes, I am super confused. I don't want to straight up confront him out of the fear of ruining things. 
The communication pattern has definitely changed a LOT over the last few months. 
I am confused, anxious and worried. I don't want the last few months to be a waste of time, energy and feelings.

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

GIRL FHIM 
JUST LEAVE!!!!!!!!!!!