“Should you date someone yk is going to treat you right and everything and actually works on their actions that hurt you but you're not really attracted to them. You feel happy when you're with them but you want them as a friend, somebody who's your comfort and they entirely reject that idea with you bcs they can't see you that way. Your opinions clash with giving things time and going all in you like them but not enough to date them and not less to entirely cut them off?”
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Someone answered with kindness...
okay so you should not date them if you don't like them enough cause it'll only hurt both of you at the end. dont force yourself to date them just because you can't lose them as a friend. be direct that you don't like them enough to date and if you do it'll only cause pain and you want to stay as friends only and if they are not comfortable for that then let them go. Let them move on.