Someone once asked...
Someone answered with kindness...
Nope u definitely shouldn't i was in ur situation and i swear i was feeling suffocated cause no matter what i just couldn't love him but he was so good. Just cut off and learn to stay alone until u find the one you want and actually good for you
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Another soul answered...
I think you shouldn't stay with someone just because they offer you a stable future, security and kindness. Those things are important in a relationship, but they aren't enough if you don't genuinely love the person. You deserve to be with someone you love, someone you feel emotionally connected to, attracted to and excited to build a future with. At the same time, don't confuse the absence of butterflies or constant excitement with the absence of love, because real love can be calm and peaceful. But if deep down you know you're not in love with him and you're only staying because he's a good man and represents a comfortable life, then you're settling rather than choosing him. He deserves someone who loves him wholeheartedly, and you deserve a life where you don't have to convince yourself that you're happy just because everything looks good on paper. Choose someone because you want them, not simply because they make your future look secure
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