Recently my best friend broke up with his girl.
From then he is constantly putting so much pressure on me to talk continuously, I can't do that, I'm person who wants to spend on myself first. I'm talking with him continuously whenever I get time, but if I go away for 10 minutes he will ask me what were you doing, why are you so much busy, you won't have time only for me, you will talk with everyone except me. It is like I'm giving my life as a commentary to him, like I'm doing this that's why I didn't give reply constantly. And If I get irritated and say I need me time he is saying I'm not asking your time, you have changed , you got other friends, that's why you are not giving me any time. I'm so much depressed due to these constant tauntings.

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Recently my best friend broke up with his girl. 
From then he is constantly putting so much pressure on me to talk continuously, I can't do that, I'm person who wants to spend on myself first. I'm talking with him continuously whenever I get time, but if I go away for 10 minutes he will ask me what were you doing, why are you so much busy, you won't have time only for me, you will talk with everyone except me. It is like I'm giving my life as a commentary to him, like I'm doing this that's why I didn't give reply constantly. And If I get irritated and say I need me time he is saying I'm not asking your time, you have changed , you got other friends, that's why you are not giving me any time. I'm so much depressed due to these constant tauntings.

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

I feel bad for your friend but I feel like he's just using you to listen to his bs instead of seeing a therapist, I get it if he needs help n stuff to move on n all but he can't force you to do smtg which u don't wanna do , even after you've set your boundry he continues to taunt you so you can distance yourself for your own mental health cuz u don't wanna absorb his misery too, hope this helps.- sinchuu