please help me
im a final year student and im doing graduation in microbiology as well as preparing for cuet pg for a good college to do masters in it and my mother is a single parent i feel so bad that i dont earn money and i am not able to help her out because currently she is not working and one of my uncle is paying for everything and i feel so pity for myself. i want to do some work but the city i live has no part time for students. idk man im just so confusend for my future, i cant even focus on my studies, i have been sad for a very long period as i lost my 2 family members in last 2 years, i dont have a good friend to share my all emotional things and i dont want to bother my boyfriend because he is already going through some shits. i literally feel so useless

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

hey love, i understand it's very difficult for you rn. you must be so overwhelmed, i wish i could lend you a hug. but don't worry, you're focusing on your studies and there's nothing wrong with that. take one step at a time, don't beat yourself up if you don't get a job or something. you're still young, you have so much ahead of you, you've the world to explore. and trust me, reach out to your boyfriend, if my partner was in plight and they decided to share something so vulnerable with me id feel very honoured. do let him know that there are things that bother you as well. make some space where the both of you can share these things, laugh and cry together. because at the end this is all human connection is about. be authentic and share a shoulder 🫶🏻 you're loved and appreciated so don't let your thoughts govern you, govern your thoughts instead. good day :3