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“People my age around me are getting married and having kids and i still haven’t found a guy. I feel very stuck. My life is a constant loop of college and work and have no proper social life except for friends in college. I like this guy but i am not his type. He gives mixed signals maybe because we respect each other and have that boundary but he flirts with me and is very popular among girls but he doesn’t give them too much attention. But he did say he would marry someone like me. Idk what to do. I am emotionally drained.”

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Another soul answered...

If you think you should get married because everyone else is getting married then you already got the wrong idea. But if its because you feel lonely then i say you ask him yourself, if he flirts with you then its either that he likes you or he likes the flirting, once you ask him and get things straight which i know you won’t do because you don’t want to destroy the relationship with the guy.. but besides that i think you should ask him.. and anyways this is a useless advice but please go out to events.. not just work and college.. you have a life.. its not just for work and college.. its to live.. so live.. i hope you find your love soon 🫶

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