“Over time, a colleague and I have become very close. We spend hours texting and calling each other late at night, and she opens up to me about all her personal troubles. I have developed real feelings for her, but I have no idea how she truly views me.
Whenever we chat or talk on the phone, she shows complete interest and gives me her full attention. Yet, any time I invite her to spend time together outside of work, she backs out using various reasons—some sound reasonable, but others feel like simple excuses.
This whole dynamic leaves me lost and uncertain. I am really not sure what step to take next or how I should deal with this.”
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See bro i will give you genuine advice i dont know your age but since you work and intrested in romance i assume you must be in your late 20,s if she is trying to treat you just as an option and you have feelings for her dont be available for her if she thinks you are important she will reach out to you if she doesnt she doesnt thats all if you want to go an extra mile try confessing to her and get a solution out of it because bro it is better to losse people in life earlier than getting attached and getting hurt later just a friendly advice you take it or leave it thats up to you