“Over the last six months, a colleague and I have turned into very close friends. We message each other late into the night, and she opens up to me about all her daily worries. I have started having romantic feelings for her, but I have no clue if she looks at me the same way.
Our connection goes back and forth. One day we chat for hours, and the next she goes completely quiet. I do not think she is running away from me on purpose—she is probably just dealing with her own private stress.
Right now, it has been two days since we last spoke. I am sitting here waiting for her message, and I miss talking to her so much it hurts. It makes me deeply worried that she might slip away. But whenever she finally shows back up and acts like everything is fine, I freeze up and fail to speak my mind.
What is the right move for me to make right now?”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Hey, If you're unsure about something then it's not worth it ...