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“One time in a MUN a random girl I don’t even know came to me hugged me and said I look so cute like a little baby or something and she’s the same age is me. I felt really uncomfortable and I kinda jokingly said ‘ aww stop infantising me 😔’ but umm she got really offended. Did I say anything thing wrong? How do I react to people constantly treating me like I’m a little child?”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Other people emotions are not your responsibilty.Their emotions show their reflection of inner self thats it.No you dint do anything wrong because you said what you felt. If people react just let them because you cant control their opinions.What you can do is hold your power and peace to yourself by not letting others diminish it.

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Another soul answered...

Haha its alright i have been in your boots...yes people treat you like a baby and takes things for granted and that pisses me off too but i think she meant no harm to you...i think the thing you said was little insensitive cause idk like if you cared for someone but they trash talk you obviously you'll feel bad So whenever someone comes close when you don't want them to be you can just say thanks i appreciate your love but i like to have some distance I don't like to get touched....this is like a reminder to them i used to say it and people respected your opinion like you respected their love...you may change your sentance accordingly And looking back when people treated like me a baby idk i just let them it used to frustrate me but on one point i gave up In my case i realised Its really easy to slip away when you don't say anything just let them be Cause if you resist then it makes them wanna treat you like a baby more After certain age they stop treating like cause you simply stopped reacting to it

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