Someone once asked...
Someone answered with kindness...
Don’t judge yourself so much. Accept and appreciate yourself as you are today. Respect those around you for who they are, understand that there will always be an element of projection going on here. So always ask, who are they vs who do I think they are etc, what are they actually giving me in reality vs what am I putting on top of that Kindness doesn’t look the same for everyone, I would focus on feeling acceptance and gratitude for those around you and the actions will follow in whatever form fits your personality
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Another soul answered...
so long as your heart is in the right place, it might not be a bad thing to be the way you are. the right people will stick around
Another soul answered...
Doing everything right... is a lot. Sometimes you cant do all of it right. And thats okay. Overworking oneself for an extended period of time will only lead to a burnout. Prioritise whats actually important to do right, and just try with the rest. It doesnt need to be perfect. As for the other: Think first. It sounds dumb but try to explain yourself why you will say or do smth before you react. Is there maybe a nicer way to get the same resullt?
Another soul answered...
Just can’t fix it? Trust dude, I’ve been there. Just be a bit more aware of everything. I suggest telling yourself everyday to be a good person because words can hurt. I don’t really know how I overcame it, but, I think it was my friends. Surround yourself with good people and you’ll be a good person too! It’s ok to be a bit mean, because people can change
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