Okayy c I'm 17 and and I'm going to turn 18 very very soon i always wanted to pursue music but I thought Im not tt good at it and didn't give a proper shot now I'm scared tt I'll regret it later soo I'm trying but c i tried diff ways to pursue it okayy I gave audition in my clg for cultural team thrice got rejected applied for global group 4 times for rejected I write songs I play guitar but I can't share it to anyone also I'm scared they will judge me I can't share to family coz they don't support these stuffs they are against it idk to whom shld i say coz I'm scared of ppl opinion already I want feedback Abt my singing and i feel like I'm lacking behind please somebody tell me wt to do if u like singing i think u can speak to me

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Okayy c I'm 17 and and I'm going to turn 18 very very soon i always wanted to pursue music but I thought Im not tt good at it and didn't give a proper shot now I'm scared tt I'll regret it later soo I'm trying but c i tried diff ways to pursue it okayy I gave audition in my clg for cultural team thrice got rejected applied for global group 4 times for rejected  I write songs I play guitar but I can't share it to anyone also I'm scared they will judge me I can't share to family coz they don't support these stuffs they are against it idk to whom shld i say coz I'm scared of ppl opinion already I want feedback Abt my singing and i feel like I'm lacking behind please somebody tell me wt to do if u like singing i think u can speak to me

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Hi twin I am 18 . Well you love music bro that's so cool like I always love music but can't sing hehe and always wanted to learn guitar but maybe in future that's just one of my wishes. So hey look be a little confident in yourself na you love singing right so have trust in yourself. You know I just saw a reel in that reel there were two people and both were bad at basketball and one didn't try bcz she think is bad but other tried again and again and failed but she kept on trying bcz if she didn't try even after failing then how would she succeed , if she kept try then there will be a time when she succeed na so keep trying. You tried so many times and you said your parents don't support it and you feel you are lacking so bro so watch videos and practice everyday you will improve as practice makes a man perfect ( being perfect nah bro it's fine to be imperfect too just be happy and have joy in what you do ) try different ways like you can go to insta and upload videos ( hide your face and have a little light then play guitar and sing, cover trending songs ) there might not be much view at start but keep going bro keep improving make interesting videos your own style ( people have short attention span so first 3 sec of videos should be catching ) make videos on trends and keep trying , well try to make a career if you want but if parents don't support at all then keep it as a hobby like have a career in something else that interest you and have music in side like Make music videos or improve then try participating in competitions ok? And about people's opinions broo??!! These people na they have too many opinions they just love talking about other's lives and comment so ignore them hmm? This is your life not theirs so live it on your own terms not theirs , have confidence bro be strong and be a little selfish for yourself. Life will get more tough in future so be brave hm? And just be yourself and focus on yourself be happy, if anyone you know who make you feel small for being yourself na then ignore them, don't take their words to heart and stay away from these people who can stop poking nose into other people's businesses ok ? All the best buddyyyy 
Wishing you well 
Stay happy brave confident strong 
Have faith in yourself 
Twin :)