“okay this feels wrong to say out loud but there is this man who is everything I am looking for just perfect he is respectful and kind and he says all the right things but I don't feel attracted to him and I kept talking to him because I believed I could fall for him but its been almost a year of us talking and I think I just love how he loves me and how I feel I have no idea what to do and I feel sooo guilty as I feel that I have lead him on when there is no way that I could reciprocate the love that he is giving me now and is ready to give”
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Someone answered with kindness...
You don't have to force love...if it had to come it would've till now if he really is that decent you quote to be he will definitely understand your feelings tell him how you feel,tell him how you respect him but not in a romantic way you did nothing wrong...make him understand,I hope he does