“Okay so there's this guy who on our first date made me write an essay or help him write an essay for his substack, i was pretty overstimulated that day having constant panic attacks so i wasn't at my best and was brain fogged as hell but i still managed to jto something down which he called corny i asked him if he didn't like it we can do away with that part and he was like nah i like it and later i found out by the link he shared with me that he didn't include that in the final draft. days later my friends prank called him like a junior who had a crush on him and turns out he wanted her to give him a scented pink doodle filled love letter only then would he consider and apparently he also lied about his birthdate to me on that date weird... but anyways i started ghosting him and also missing the conversations because despite all this i really enjoyed my conversations about music and literature with him so he recently texted me and i responded was that a good idea ?”
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Someone answered with kindness...
It is a good idea if you are not serious about him but If you're starting to develop feelings than it is a trouble as this guy is not the one we can clearly see it here so have chill convos but don't develop feelings and by chance of you do develop feelings don't run away but don't give him a chance also he doesn't deserve it he will waste your time