Okay so i met a group on ometv there were 4 people and among them i liked one the most
I just new his first name and somehow i found his insta and sent him a request
I just wanted to add him on my insta so like i didn’t texted him after adding , then after 1.5 day he texts me and our conversation gets started and those 2 days were really nice like he used to reply very instantly and early if i would say , then when he came back to college there was a slight reduction in convos like very slight
Then we talked on phone calls for 2 days for about 2-2 hours and it was good he also found that amusing
Then we used to talk on chats and used to send each other VNs
But with time he reduced the conversations and started replying very very late and it bothered me so i used to tell him that why do u do it and stuff and he used to give reasons which seemed pretty valid
Then we talked on call twice(both on very different days) but only for like 10 mins and then he had his work and stuff
At that point i realised that i only want to have the conversation and i was the one who was texting first every single time and giving life update and all so it bothered me alot

He even said one time that now i will try to makeup my time for u i will give u time and you are not the only friend who is angry with me , its a force of habit
And right after that like after 2-3 days same stuff happening again and i called him twice and he never called me back once
And didn’t even texted that i will call u later or whatever
Then i again confronted him that is there anything wrong with me or what then he said he is like this and he can’t help it
After that i texted him showing the photos that i have taken i texted that on Tuesday and today is monday , he hasn’t seen it
I feel so bad , like i lovee photography and i am sending u one of the best pics that i have taken till now and you won’t even do a courtesy to take a look at them
And the worst part is i have feelings for him
What do i do , i have not texted him a single word since Tuesday but there are urges to do that

What do i do?? Like what is wrong with him
I want him to like me backk

Question

Okay so i met a group on ometv there were 4 people and among them i liked one the most 
I just new his first name and somehow i found his insta and sent him a request 
I just wanted to add him on my insta so like i didn’t texted him after adding , then after 1.5 day he texts me and our conversation gets started and those 2 days were really nice like he used to reply very instantly and early if i would say , then when he came back to college there was a slight reduction in convos like very slight 
Then we talked on phone calls for 2 days for about 2-2 hours and it was good he also found that amusing 
Then we used to talk on chats and used to send each other VNs 
But with time he reduced the conversations and started replying very very late and it bothered me so i used to tell him that why do u do it and stuff and he used to give reasons which seemed pretty valid 
Then we talked on call twice(both on very different days) but only for like 10 mins and then he had his work and stuff 
At that point i realised that i only want to have the conversation and i was the one who was texting first every single time and giving life update and all so it bothered me alot

He even said one time that now i will try to makeup my time for u i will give u time and you are not the only friend who is angry with me , its a force of habit 
And right after that like after 2-3 days same stuff happening again and i called him twice and he never called me back once 
And didn’t even texted that i will call u later or whatever 
Then i again confronted him that is there anything wrong with me or what then he said he is like this and he can’t help it
After that i texted him showing the photos that i have taken i texted that on Tuesday and today is monday , he hasn’t seen it
I feel so bad , like i lovee photography and i am sending u one of the best pics that i have taken till now and you won’t even do a courtesy to take a look at them 
And the worst part is i have feelings for him
What do i do , i have not texted him a single word since Tuesday but there are urges to do that

What do i do?? Like what is wrong with him
I want him to like me backk

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Darling, that's what most boys do; you know, initially they will literally talk to you 24 hours a day, and after a few days, their attention span goes down. I have experienced the same thing, and I have cracked that you need to let go, ignore him, and stop sending all those long texts or whatever. Sometimes you need distance to make them realize what they have lost. Also, why do you need him to like you? If he had liked you, you would not be here questioning this.