“Okay so I have this cousin that I started talking to back in 2023 we would talk all day I never shared much about myself but tried to listen to him always helped him and everything he liked a girl and he would mostly just talk about her with me after a while the girl and him started talking again and he just kinda stopped because he got what he wanted and I just I don't know I'm not sure if I even like him or if I'm just attached to him because he was the first people I talked to like all and night and I'm a Muslim okay so the closest you can to actually know and talk to a guy is your cousin and it's just like I've been to his place he knows my family and all well now he's in Chicago moved abroad where the girl lived and I just can't seem to let go I keep crying and missing but I don't know why I'm being like this and I hate her I despise her I had to block her account so I wouldn't look thorough her pictures and start bawling”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Its okay feel hatered and despise towards her. But also its okay to have feelings on him and miss him. What i think is, that you miss the version of yourself when you are talking with him. But from the things you said, you were just listening to his drama, rather then share about yourself. So gurl, don't rush to forget him or hate that other girl, try to focus on loving yourself, try to do what makes YOU feel good.
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Another soul answered...
So you started liking him and you helped him he moved and now youre lonely don’t be sad do u really wamt someone who is into another girl and he approached you for relationship advice not to be in one agr tumhe apna cousin oasand tha to tumhe aone feeling mix nhi krni chahiye thi wo gya or tum bhi kove onn kro apne acche future ki dua mango sb theek hojyga or jo behter hoga wo milega ho sakta h koi or behter ho tumhare liye ya koi tumhe pasand krta ho dua kro bs