“Okay I'm in a relationship from 8 months. In the initial 3 months my boyfriend used to talk sexually about girls with his friends watched thirst traps rated girls , smoked drinked but never told me. I figured everything by myself then he apologized changed. But he has the same friend group and makes same type of friends. I can't forget things but he gets angry if I bring it up. Sometimes his friends still send him questionable things but he deletes it nd says I don't want us to fight and I'm not involved in it but boys are like that I can't stop them so I delete it. Earlier he used to watch thirst traps and told his friend that I can watch it my gf wouldn't know since I'll use "delete for you". How do I believe him now. He says he's changed but he still has the same friend group. And i felt cheated in the first 3 months how can I not bring that up if it's hurting me”
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Someone answered with kindness...
It sounds like you already communicated that it hurts you, honestly? People can't change in the same toxic environment, so if he refuses to take actions then he's refusing to change for the better to. Don't waste your time in someone who's willing to stay the same even when it's hurting you just because it's more comfortable for them
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Another soul answered...
You're totally right and valid here. Don't tolerate his bullshi