“ok so me and my bf, we're in college, we know each other since school, he broke up saying he doesnt want to continue anymore few months back, after a month and half of no contact, we started talking, and after a week, we got back together again, things are great and healthy between us (thu thu thu, no nazar, touchwood), but he feels like for his goals, he needs to be more focused, and i shouldnt be with him rn, he wants to sort everything out first and then in future we'll get along, but i dont believe that not because i dont trust him or he's disloyal, its not like that, but even if people stay together they fall out of love and so if we go no contact for few years and then get together, what if he wont be able to accept my future version (i love him always, its that one true love yk), and i in future i cant even blame him for that, cause things do change, but he really does want me just that he wants to establish things first, and i have faced an unexpected death in my own family so i dont believe leaving things on future, you dont know what will happen, god forbidden if something happens we'll lose all the possible moments we could have, right now we're together, and its ok, but he gets these thoughts in between, tell me guys, how can we make it work”
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Hi love l think you need an honest conversation with him,telling him your fears etc and maybe taking it slow?like remaining friends? This is something you will have tio communicate to your partner honestly