Nothing is working out in my life, lost my job and it’s been 5 months now even after applying to kobs and giving interviews, i am not getting any positive result
the guy i am in love with said he wants nothing serious in life and can’t give me any future, whenever i try to move on he comes back as if nothing happened
I am above 30, still un married and family pressure is killing me

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Nothing is working out in my life, lost my job and it’s been 5 months now even after applying to kobs and giving interviews, i am not getting any positive result
the guy i am in love with said he wants nothing serious in life and can’t give me any future, whenever i try to move on he comes back as if nothing happened 
I am above 30, still un married and family pressure is killing me

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

I can't promise positive results but I will advise one thing: 
1. Change your resume. Sometimes, resumes are not up to the mark so it doesn't fetch you jobs. Just search in instagram about resume building/modifying and you will get loads of suggestions on it. You might need to use AI.
2. If you are heartbroken, start studying. Start a diploma or a certification course (this will enhance your CV) or just learn basic video editing or copyrighting or things like that from YouTube if you can't invest at this point. There are various free certification courses you can take. This will bring back your teenage self who was scared of exams and so focused on studying.
3. You don't have to be married if you haven't found the right one yet. Always remember, you have to stay with yourself more than you stay with your partner. So choose someone who will look after you. Don't just rush into deciding things like things.
Remember it's always better to be late to your desired life than be early to a regretful life.