“My partner is afraid of responsibility, they are easily overwhelmed & emotionally afraid. Despite this we have our moments. I can no longer tell whether i love them or i am just afraid of being alone.”
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Someone answered with kindness...
The fact that you care about them and are willing to deal with their weaknesses implies that you love them.
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Another soul answered...
Why drag me into it?
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Another soul answered...
Perhaps your partner is not the only one who is afraid.
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Another soul answered...
You need to take a break. If your to-do list is a mile long and your partner cannot handle one item on the list you make for them then you need to take a break before you break yourself.