“My partner is afraid of responsibility, they are easily overwhelmed & emotionally afraid. Despite this we have our moments. I can no longer tell whether i love them or i am just afraid of being alone.”

Another soul answered...

Its probably both. You remember the good parts about them while also seeing the parts that actively hurt you. This is weighed against your own fears and insecurities, so you cuddle up next to the flawed individual you arent sure you love, because you want a warm body to make you feel better.

Another soul answered...

there is a fine line between love and overattachment. you'll find out eventually. but if you cant be alone without your partner, if you get jealous of them those are sign of toxic attachment

Another soul answered...

You need to take a break. If your to-do list is a mile long and your partner cannot handle one item on the list you make for them then you need to take a break before you break yourself.