“My grandma is retuning on Wednesday From her London trip the thing I don't like my grandma she is very noisy and the type who would constantly talk I suspect she also has ocd and always want things in a certain order u don't do as she likes than shouting and no Peace left in the house she is not all bad she does love me but action shows something else sometimes a little taunt creeps in and overall it's not a good time with her she is always watching I just don't like being in her presence recently she went to London to her other son these months are peaceful but she is coming back now I am just afraid so the point that I have nightmares u can't just ignore a person in a house especially not that one who is loud and noisy I feel like I should pray and pray Alot that somehow the flight is cancelled or she directly goes to her other son in Australia but the thing is till when cus no matter how long in the end she will return I don't want to do cus this is just not in my control I am anxious and I just want peace”
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I can understand why you're feeling anxious. Living with someone whose behaviour makes you uncomfortable can be exhausting, especially when you don't get enough peace in your own home. But remember, you cannot control her behaviour or when she returns. What you can control is how you handle the situation. Try not to let the fear of her coming back take away the peaceful days you have right now. When she returns, try to give yourself some personal space whenever things get overwhelming. You don't have to argue with her or react to every little thing she says. And if something she does hurts you, try talking to her calmly when she's in a good mood. You deserve peace too. I hope things get better for you